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Getting Out of Loneliness

Getting Out of Loneliness
Loneliness is such deadly and dangerous thing that shortens human life. Opiate is the only thing that is associated with loneliness meaning: when you are alone, your brain does not secrete any opioid, but when it is overcrowded, more opioid will be secreted. As members in Congress60 hug each other, they feel that they are not alone; as if they have consumed 2 grams of opium per day. Moving through negative thinking, anti-values, errors, sabotages, and expectation of reprimand and conflict, increases the need of drugs for humans. Moving on the straight path way and values, serving people and giving happiness to others, make us leave our loneliness, and make us balanced as human.

Being away from the Creator and His creatures seems to be the root of the gloom and loneliness If we do not forget God and human thinking, and follow life's rules, it is impossible to feel sadness and loneliness. So, the best approach is moving in the direction of the straight path and values, avoiding anti-values and darkness, doing sound practices and being away from unhealthy practices, and the most important, serving people.

We should not do anything against the rules. Those who act in this way are the best and most completed pattern that should be considered and followed. We should know that having no purpose causes gloom and loneliness. It is absolutely clear that the more precise the aims we have, the brighter the way and its angles are. Therefore they are more possible to achieve and gloom and loneliness will disappear. Thus human beings, based on their own conditions, should consider correct and accessible purpose for their lives, they should make any attempt to gain it and set their success as a prelude to reach the middle aims and a bridge for achieving the ultimate goal. And if because of lack of purpose or the wrong choice in life, loneliness is obtained for humans, the only treatment will be returning to the path and selecting a correct target.

Remembrance of God creates a contact ring between the Creator and His Creatures that is, the key of happiness, and one of the exhilarated treasures. Moving toward the values and being away from the anti-values bring a man out of sorrows and crisis. Having good friends in life, is an important factor which can eliminate human beings’ loneliness and grant health and comfort to them.

The Books “Crossing the zone 60 degrees below zero” and “Love”  written  by Mr. Dezhakam and CDs and literatures of Congress 60 are man's best friends that transfer the author’s senses to the listeners and readers so as to give them good  mood, and is the best and most complete tools to make individual go out of loneliness. Those who study these books and the literature of Congress 60 get familiar with the writer’s thought and never feel alone.

Serving people is an important factor in socialization and getting out of loneliness that is so peaceful and constructive. In addition, participating in artistic, sports, scientific and gregarious activities of Congress is another way to avoid being alone.

The problem of loneliness is the source of many diseases and every day makes more people involved. Loneliness is a growing phenomenon of today's society that somehow attracts many people and has some consequences for the individual, society and families. Living in loneliness and being away from others can influence both hidden and overt forms of humans’ entity. Some causes of addiction are withdrawal, isolation, loneliness and gloom. Nowadays the number of people living in isolation and loneliness is more than before in the past. People sometimes talk satisfactorily about their changed new lifestyle, but they do not know that this loneliness can be the scourge of their lives. Living in loneliness and away from others, likely develop heart and brain diseases, also stroke, and social isolation increases these problems. Loneliness brings anxiety and stress with it as well as weakening the immune system. On the other hand, it leads to high blood pressure and can lead to premature death; and the belief that cyberspace fills loneliness is quite wrong. Be sure that Facebook, Instagram, satellite and social media are not replaced with face-to-face communication and cannot convey your emotions, and can even develop depression. So, we should not cut face-to­-face communication with others under any circumstances. Do not let such gifts be taken from you because it increases the possibility of different diseases.

The leading century is the century of human isolation from each other. People are now constantly separate and avoid being with each other and seek refuge in their virtual lives. Technology is going to be replaced with men. Thus people spend much of their time with their technological devices rather than a real person such as parents, spouse and children. Somehow technology has been a discontinuity factor rather than a factor for unity. We should know that technology has brought an inverses ghost for human beings and unfortunately this has made be deceived by the virtual world. Technology causes individualism and this is a bitter fact.

The truth is that some people are immersed in such loneliness and isolation that they are not allowed, even for a moment, to be alone with themselves in order to think. Actually the big problem of today’s man is lack of privacy with himself. TV, satellite, internet, mobile and virtual spaces have surrounded us in such a way that they don’t allow individuals to learn about their natural needs in the world of ghosts. Technology makes humans so neutral and indifferent that they know a lot about the news of the world while they are unaware from near neighbors, brothers, sisters, parents and relatives. Among all these technologies, unfortunately, we increasingly feel more lonely, and if we neglect, we suffer from pain and agony that its great result is all sorts of physical and mental illnesses which we must carry with us the whole life.

Written by: Traveler Masoud

Translated by: Companion Mahsa

May 21, 2017

 

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