The second session of the ninth round of physician legion in Taleqani Park was held by Mr. Dezhakam as the master of ceremony, Ms. Hengama as the secretary, and Ms Azam as the guest speaker with the agenda of “Etiquette, Politeness and Impoliteness, Balance and Imbalance” on April 29, 2016 at 8 o’clock.
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Ms. Azam
Hello everybody. I am Azam Ansari, graduated from Tehran University of Medical sciences and I have been working in Addiction field for years. I have been familiar with congress 60 for a long time; however, I have officially been cooperating with congress 60 for 3 years.
Mr. Dezhakam mentions that in the past the focus of discussions about addiction was just on quitting drugs. But with the passage of time, it was concluded that quitting is meaningless. Therefore a new discussion was raised as “the addiction treatment”. The treatment should be done in 3 parts: body, psyche and world view. Then the matter of “balance” was raised and it was said that balance is above the treatment and the treatment is above the quitting. To better clarify the issue, congress 60 presents simple definitions such as: Justice and balance have the same root (in Arabic) meaning everything should be located in its right place.
Most people believe that there is no justice since they have encountered many problems in their lives, but congress 60 turns the doubt into certainty that all the laws, like gravity, repulsion, reflection, and even every law governing our particles, are equal to every individual. And this is the justice.
There are three types of balance: stable, instable and neutral. Stable balance is defined as when an object receives a power, there will be a momentum i.e. the stress or fear whose purpose is to disrupt the balance. One who has stable balance can handle the tension and return to his/her first balance. In unstable balance the individual cannot come back to the first balance if s/he receives the same tension and loses his/her equilibrium. For example, the person who has quitted drugs and his/her biochemical system is out of balance may return to his/her previous state if there is a small tension. In neutral balance the individual has no reaction to the tension s/he receives.
In the process of completion, man can experience each of these three types of balance. There are some abnormalities in any society that are identified but some are not, for instance fraudulence which is considered as promptitude. If an individual can act according to the norms of the society, he is a polite person. Congress 60 teaches us how to take steps to achieve the goal. If someone’s performance is bad, it means that he doesn’t know. If s/he becomes knowledgeable and reaches to effective knowledge, s/he can achieve a proper level of balance.
The details of showing respect for any field are referred to in the CD, for example, eating correctly (eating styles), treating our children and wife, hospitality, driving, discipline, punctuality and so on. Congress 60 is called human revivification society. Revivification means giving new life to individuals and can be a synonym for rehabilitation. We achieve this rehabilitation through re-observing the norms of the society.
This week is called the Guide Week and I congratulate Mr. Dezhakam and all the other guides in congress 60 on this week and hope they will become successful.
Dr. Masoud
Hello everybody. Molanaa says:
Let us implore God to help us to self-control, one who lacks self-control is deprived of the grace of the Lord.
The undisciplined man does not maltreat himself alone, but he sets the whole world on fire.
I would like to talk in detail about my travel to Qatar, accompanying Congress 60 Rugby Team, as the representative of the physician legion, and also talk about how cleverly I could attract their curiosity to congress 60. I tried to make them wonder: What is congress 60? I saw a particular feeling of amazement and bewilderment on their faces when I was explaining the congress 60’s method in treatment of addiction. It was unbelievable for them that the rugby team members had been drug abusers some day.
They couldn’t accept the matter even when the travelers explained to them what terrible situations they had had.
Although the travelers tried to hide the old unwelcome scars on their bodies (from addiction days), they sometimes had to uncover them in order to prove that they had been addict in the past.
Then I said, “If a Noble Prize is supposed to be given to somebody for revivifying people, it should be awarded to Mr. Dezhakam; because he has guided humans from the darkest points to the lightest ones. Afterwards I asked the ambassador to relate just one sentence of Mr. Dezhakam to other countries’ ambassadors, i.e. we have innovated a method for addiction treatment that has been achieved hard. It has a special process and can revivify a dead person in its real meaning.
The team included two groups, 10 people from congress 60‘s members and 12 people from outside of congress 60. I never want to say those 12 people were bad, but they were not comparative to congress 60 travelers at all. I was so surprised and I didn’t fit in my skin. I have gone on many sports trips and I have been familiar with all sports fields for 50 years but I have never seen an athlete with all his past terrible situations can behave so nicely. Rugby is a rough sport by itself and its players are easily irritated. But our players showed no reactions to the tensions coming from the opponent team and kept calm and politeness.
I congratulate my dear master, Mr Dezhakam, and all guides of congress 60 on the Guide Week. I wish we (who have written many theses and consider ourselves as masters) had the ability to follow the real masters’ behavior.
Dr. Fereshta
First of all, I am so glad to hear that Rugby National Team has observed morals and manners. As the master of ceremony said, politeness means observing the norms of the society. I, as an educated person who has a social personality, always think that I observe politeness. But if we pay attention to our behavior, we can understand that there are some norms we don’t mind. We can’t say someone has a bad nature from birth since the opposite has been proven in congress 60. At last I congratulate Mr. Dezhakam and all the congress 60’s guides.
Dr. Reza
At first I congratulate Mr. Dezhakam and all the guides, who are serving all over the country, on the Guide Week. In our society the matter of balance and etiquette is of high importance. We should see whether the tensions from our surrounding can disturb our balance or not. In fact we should measure the amount of our stability or instability of our balance. The majority of the events and disasters happen in the society because of the individuals’ reactions to the environmental tensions.
One important issue that has much increased in our society is the matter of tolerance. It is in a way that people lose their tolerance with the slightest stress and tension. As you know one of the body building champions in our country died for the imbalance. Observing etiquette is an important issue that should be paid attention to. Congress 60 has well referred to observing the rules and regulations of any situation. In the past we as children couldn’t lie down in front of the adults or we were not allowed to speak before the adults.
All these points are referred to in the CD. Unfortunately, all these traditions have been forgotten. Last week we talked about the topic of high number of divorce cases. It has an unbelievable upward trend. In my opinion, the most important reason is in ignoring the ethics and proper behavior in the married life which causes imbalance in the couple’s mind and behavior. We must learn that by congress 60’s instructions and methods we will regain our first balance.
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Dr. Nader
I congratulate the master of congress 60, Mr. Dezhakam, on the Guide Week. Imam Ali said: The best name parents can choose for their child is “Adab” meaning politeness. No one can deny the role of politeness.
Dr. Samad
A guide is much like a teacher. A guide is a person who has experienced darkness and has tried hard to exit the darkness and reach to the light. Thus s/he is completely aware of her/his pupil’s situation and can help her/him well.
Yesterday we witnessed one case of liberation (from addiction). He was 54 years old and his companions shed tears of joy. Their happiness inspired an indescribable feeling of pleasure and delight in us. He couldn’t introduce himself at first but yesterday he was talking about his life for some minutes. A guide can revive such a dead person. I congratulate all members on this week and I hope congress 60 can spread across the world so that all people can use this great blessing.
Dr. Atousa
I congratulate the Father and Founder of congress 60 on the week and I also hope all guides serving all over the country will become successful. As the master said, balance is over treatment and treatment is over quitting (drugs). According to Dr. Masoud, half of the National Rugby Team includes congress 60’s members. Some day in the past they had been in the darkness of addiction while they are now the source of pride for our country in Asian championships and have such balance and etiquette. It is admirable and I hope congress 60 becomes a global event and all people in the world learn about this great blessing.
Dr. Hamza
There is a verse in Holy Quran saying: “Those who are in balance will be in salvation.”
Mr. Dezhakam talks about the etiquette and the issues we usually involve in daily life. Balance has an important role in moral disorders and mental illnesses. Regarding to prying into children’s possessions, it is said in the CD that it is a destructive act since it is a kind of rudeness and disrespect toward others’ affairs. Generally observing etiquette can decrease much social harm.
Dr. Mohammad
First of all I congratulate all the guides of congress 60 on the Guide Week. One important reason that makes us change our lifestyle is the balance of the life. Before balance appears, we are more unchangeable but when balance starts to appear, we can change more easily. The considerable work done in congress 60 is that this change happens in people who don’t accept any changes, those whose families are sometimes waiting for their deaths. Congress 60 changes these people into kind, polite, patient and balanced ones so that their families feel sad when they are not with them.
Dr. Akram (Deputy Director of Treatment in Health Network)
I congratulate you on the Guide Week and I hope I can attend these meetings continuously and be a good companion for congress 60.
Ms. Elham, psychologist
First of all I congratulate on the Guide Week. Guides are the messengers of peace and friendship. They try for the fulfillment of the humanity so as to change the darkness to the light. Regarding the agenda, it is said that if someone makes a mistake, it implies his/her ignorance or foolishness. This statement gives me assurance, because someone who is making mistakes doesn’t show his rancor but his ignorance has made him/her to make such a mistake. On the other hand, it is said in the worldview (pamphlet) that unknowledgeable people are teachers on their own part and people can learn from them.
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Mr. Yousef, psychologist
I congratulate Mr. Dezhakam, my great master, on the Guide Week. In congress 60, Guides give their instructions to their pupils for free and without any expectations. The guide develops only one thought in his/her mind that is the revivifying humanity in those who have lost themselves. The main purpose of a guide is his/her pupils’ liberation and s/he experiences a feeling of extra joy and happiness when his/her pupil regains his/her entire health.
Dr. Mohammad
At first I congratulate you on the Guide Week. I have been cooperating with congress 60 for 4 years as a small member. So far 60 people of my patients have been cured. Frankly speaking I can say that regarding the addiction treatment congress 60 comes first. Now an egotist director who was deeply suffered from addiction and didn’t believe in treatment at all, has started his treatment for 5 months and his change in behavior is completely obvious.
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Dr. Jahanfar
I congratulate Mr. Dezhakam, our good and honorable master, on the Guide Week. In 1363 (32 years before) there was a 70-year-old man who was responsible for running a library in Imam Khomeini hospital. He was so courteous and regulation and had a motto saying: the more polite, the more successful. The library was so peaceful that no one dared to say a word. Such peace was the result of observing the rules governing in the library.
Mr. Hakimi
I congratulate the great master, Mr. Dezhakam on this week. It is said: We are like candles that show you the way, the rest depends on your thinking, willpower and move in order to reach the light. The masters’ words like that of Mr. Dezhakam are true ones so they could guide people from the darkness to the light. People think that just addiction is disease while many people have been infected by other diseases like telling lies, gossiping, meddling and so on. Such people need teachers to liberate them from these diseases. I have had the honor of working with Mr. Dezhakam for 15 years and I would definitely say that he is “a perfect role model” and has been able to guide this system with his instructions. I believed that all of us have been blessed to get the true words from him to change our darkness to light. I hope all of us can appreciate being in this meeting.
Mr. Dezhakam
Regarding the human being some issues are hidden and some are obvious. In other words, that is the same as hidden and apparent mood we are familiar with in congress 60. Do we think that human comes to existence by fertilization and includes just flesh and bone? Does everything come to an end by dying and there is no other world?
If we believe in this point, we are deceiving ourselves. But in congress 60 we believe that Human includes self and body ,or hidden and apparent mood. The fate of any human being has started from the Aalast Treaty. Human has existed before birth and will exist afterwards. If we want to teach rules and discipline to someone, we cannot at initially say that a vicious person cannot be trained. It is true that we cannot train vicious people but the point is that the realization of vicious people is not our duty.
We consider all people as educable and do all our best to train them and if we see them grouching we don’t immediately judge that they have a disease in their hearts and are not curable. In my opinion children are different from each other at birth. One of my relatives’ children was just 1 year old, however; in my idea he was a scoundrel. Once he thrust a pencil in his grandmother’s eye and she became blind. Thus sometimes it could be said that disease is in people’s heart but we cannot realize it.
In congress 60 we believe in fate and destiny but we don’t let it interfere in our lives, otherwise we consider all the events and problems as parts of our fate and don’t take any steps to solve them. In the same way we do our best to cure and educate people but their recovery depends on themselves. I cannot still realize who will be cured and who isn’t trained. Sometimes I saw someone and I thought he would not be cured but by passing the time I saw he has been cured. And sometimes I thought that a person would be cured but he didn’t. Therefore I told all guides to do their best for treatment of their pupils and don’t deprive them of their help.
Regarding politeness, if someone asks me: What do you prefer, an impolite son or addicted son? I choose the addicted one. 38000 people in congress 60 have the membership card. One addict can take a city into chaos. Now there are 2000 people in Taleqani Park and the police are not able to make this discipline. The only reason is the people training based on discipline and etiquette. We should preserve people’s privacy and dignity. We should respect the guides and also we ask the guides to behave toward their pupils kindly and nicely. I always remind the travelers in congress 60 that it is better for them to believe that their guide knows better than them and no one can help them except their guides.
Guides in congress 60 serve people for free so we have assigned this week to appreciate them. Everybody has to thank his/her guide even those who are guides themselves. Pupils appreciate their guides by donating envelopes containing 5000, 10000, 100000 tomans, ….. (about $1.5, $ 3, $ 25,….) or even a note in the envelope to thank the guide.
Guides in congress 60 have no rights to interfere in another guide’s affairs. Everybody can change his/her guide and after leaving his/her first legion s/he cannot return to the same legion. Nowadays people don’t seem to value the Teachers’ Week and if someone gives a present or a flower to his/ her teacher, others make fun of him and think the student is going to flatter his/her teacher. This kind of culture is a disaster and we should try to change these standards.
Prepared by: Amin Hamladari
Translated by: Marjan
May 14, 2016